Flirt (With Me) in New Zealand Sign Language (NZSL)

The sign “flirt (with me) come on to” is a playful expression often used in casual social interactions within the NZ Deaf community. It’s a way to show interest in someone in a light-hearted manner. This sign can be used in various contexts, such as when meeting someone new or expressing attraction in a friendly way.

How to Sign “Flirt (With Me)Come On Tohemahema, NangāVerb” in NZSL

1. Start with your dominant hand in a flat “5” handshape, palm facing towards you.
2. Position your hand near your chest, close to your heart, to indicate a personal connection.
3. Gently move your hand away from your body in a small, playful circular motion while maintaining the “5” handshape.
4. While performing the movement, maintain a friendly facial expression, such as a smile, to convey the playful nature of flirting.
5. Optionally, use your non-dominant hand to mimic gestures that suggest interest, like a slight wave or beckoning motion towards the person you are engaging with.

Common Mistakes

• Some learners may use a rigid handshape instead of the relaxed “5” handshape, which can make the sign appear less playful.
• Not incorporating facial expressions can lead to misunderstandings, as expressions are crucial in conveying the sign’s intent.
• Performing the sign too quickly can make it unclear; it’s important to take your time to convey the flirtatious nature of the sign.

NZSL vs ASL

In NZSL, the sign for “flirt” incorporates specific movements and facial expressions that are unique to the cultural context of New Zealand. In contrast, American Sign Language (ASL) uses different handshapes and movements for similar expressions. This highlights the distinctiveness of NZSL, which has been influenced by British Sign Language (BSL) and incorporates elements from te reo Māori.

Related Signs

• (All Of) You – A sign used to refer to a group or individual in an inclusive way.
• (All Of) Youyou Allkoutou (Katoa)Pronoun – A variation of the previous sign with a focus on inclusivity.
• (Be) Careful – A sign that conveys caution, often used in interactions where care is needed.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I use this sign in different contexts?

Yes, while “flirt” is typically light-hearted, it can also be adapted for various social situations depending on your relationship with the person.

Are there regional variations for this sign in NZ?

While the core sign remains consistent, some regions may have slight variations in hand movement or expression, reflecting local Deaf culture.

What similar signs should I learn?

Related signs like “love” and “like” can complement your flirting vocabulary, helping you express different levels of affection.

How can I improve my signing skills?

Practice with native NZSL users, watch videos, and participate in local Deaf events to enhance your skills and understanding.

Is facial expression really that important?

Absolutely! In NZSL, facial expressions add meaning and context to your signs, making them more effective and engaging.

Can I use this sign with friends?

Yes, it’s often used in friendly contexts, but always consider the comfort level of those you’re interacting with.