Boyfriend / Girlfriend in New Zealand Sign Language (NZSL)

The signs for “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” in NZSL are used to describe romantic partners. These signs are commonly used in conversations among the Deaf community in New Zealand to express relationships and affection. Understanding how to sign these words can enhance communication and connection within the community.

How to Sign “Boyfriend / Girlfriend” in NZSL

1. Start with your dominant hand in a flat ‘B’ shape (palm facing down).
2. For “boyfriend,” place the ‘B’ hand on your chin, then move it slightly away from your face. For “girlfriend,” use the same ‘B’ hand but place it on your cheek instead.
3. Maintain a relaxed facial expression that reflects the type of relationship you are describing; a smile works well for a positive context.
4. Ensure your non-dominant hand is relaxed at your side or in a neutral position.

Common Mistakes

• Using the wrong hand shape; remember to keep it as a flat ‘B’.
• Incorrect facial expressions; avoid a neutral expression as it can change the meaning.
• Confusing the placement of the sign; ensure you place it on the correct part of your face (chin for “boyfriend,” cheek for “girlfriend”).

NZSL vs ASL

In NZSL, the signs for “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” involve specific placements on the face, while in ASL, the signs are made with different hand shapes and movements. This highlights the unique characteristics of NZSL influenced by local culture and the community.

Related Signs

• Friend – A sign used to describe a platonic relationship.
• Love – Expresses affection and emotional connection.
• Date – Refers to going out with someone romantically.
• Partner – A sign for a significant other in a relationship.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I use “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” in a sentence in NZSL?

Yes, you can incorporate these signs into sentences to describe your relationship. For example, “My boyfriend is coming to visit” can be signed by combining the sign for “my,” “boyfriend,” and the sign for “visit.”

Are there regional variations for these signs in New Zealand?

While the signs are generally consistent across New Zealand, some regions may have slight variations in facial expressions or hand movements, reflecting local Deaf culture.

What if I want to describe a partner who is non-binary?

You can use the sign “partner” as a more inclusive term, or you could use the sign for “friend” depending on the context of the relationship.

How do I differentiate between a boyfriend and a girlfriend in a group conversation?

When discussing both, use “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” signs clearly and add facial expressions or gestures to indicate who you are referring to.

Are there similar signs in other sign languages?

Yes, many sign languages have their own signs for “boyfriend” and “girlfriend,” but the specific handshapes and movements will vary.

What tips do you have for learning these signs?

Practice with a partner or in a group, observe fluent signers, and don’t hesitate to ask for feedback to improve your signing skills.