You with Me in British Sign Language (BSL)

The sign “you with me in BSL” is often used in the UK Deaf community to invite someone to participate in a conversation or activity, emphasizing inclusivity and connection. It reflects the collaborative spirit of the Deaf culture, where communication and shared experiences are highly valued.

How to Sign “You With Me” in BSL

1. Start with your dominant hand in a flat ‘B’ handshape (palm facing down) at chest height, representing ‘you’.
2. Move your hand slightly forward towards the person you are addressing, while maintaining the same handshape.
3. Next, bring your non-dominant hand up to your chest in a flat ‘B’ handshape, representing ‘me’.
4. Move your non-dominant hand slightly forward as you nod your head, indicating ‘with’.
5. For ‘in BSL’, make a ‘B’ handshape with your dominant hand and circle it in front of your chest, using your facial expression to show enthusiasm or invitation.

Common Mistakes

• Forgetting to use facial expressions, which are crucial for conveying meaning and emotion in BSL.
• Not using the correct handshape; it’s important to keep it flat to avoid confusion.
• Misplacing the movement; ensure the hands move forward to indicate engagement and invitation.

BSL vs ASL

In BSL, the sign for “you with me” incorporates specific handshapes and movements that are distinct from American Sign Language (ASL). ASL may use different signs or gestures to express the same concept, often relying on a more fingerspelled approach. This highlights the unique syntax and structure of BSL compared to ASL.

Related Signs

• 1 – The sign for the number one in BSL.
• 10 – The sign for the number ten in BSL.
• 100 – The sign for the number one hundred in BSL.
• 11 – The sign for the number eleven in BSL.
• 12 – The sign for the number twelve in BSL.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I use “you with me” in a BSL sentence?

You can use it to invite someone to join you. For example: “You with me at the meeting?”

Are there regional variations for this sign?

While the core sign remains the same, some regions may have slight variations in handshape or facial expressions. Always observe local usage.

Are there similar signs in BSL?

Yes, signs like “join” and “together” convey similar meanings and can be used in related contexts.

What are some tips for learning this sign?

Practice in front of a mirror to check your handshape and facial expressions. Watching fluent signers can also help.

Can I use this sign in different contexts?

Yes, it’s versatile! Use it in casual conversations, meetings, or any time you want to invite someone to join you.

What if I make a mistake while signing?

Don’t worry! The Deaf community is generally understanding. If you notice a mistake, simply correct it and continue.